The decorum of the school changes for the positive in a matter of 6 months. I have 5 children VERY close together and to achieve a step above chaos a spanking here and there was done. They are both well behaved kids but when the two of them get together, game over. But i knew the reason why i was spank at that time. Never had any reason to do again. I agree with jess! Educate yourselves fully before being a parent.
Don’t Spank! Here’s What You Can Do Instead! – Illinois Early Learning Project
I learned to fear authority in all forms. If you have had to beat your child do not do it simply because you are angry— do it with dignity. Dinner is boiling over, the kids are fighting, the phone is ringing and your child drops the can of peas and you lose it. Deborah Godfrey on July 3, at 7:
Now, the group says parents should not spank, hit, slap, threaten, insult, humiliate or shame their children. The evidence against spanking is overwhelming. Ari on January 21, at 4: It is amazing how people say there is other ways to discipline your kids than spankings.
This stuff really does shape our children in later life. Why Choosing Your Battles May Not Be an Effective Parenting Strategy. I have to agree. At home he is a loving caring kid. So far my siblings and I are some of the kindest and most gentle people you would ever want to meet. It is amazing how people say there is other ways to discipline your kids than spankings. When you're raised in the South, you can expect a few things with certainty: